As the current sole write on the “Cute Names To Call Your Girlfriend” Blog I feel I have a special connection with my readers and always want the best for them. I know from the emails I receive that you all take what I have to say very seriously when it comes to your relationships. So today I’m writing specifically about the one real secret of a strong and lasting attraction between two people.
There are three types of attraction: Mental, Physical, and Emotional. Each one of these is extremely important in a romantic relationship and none of them is more important than another. If you are neglecting to keep yourself attractive in any of these categories it is inevitable that you partner will begin to lose attraction to you. Again, they may not leave you or end the relationship out of a sense of obligation or because they are comfortable in their place, but they WILL lose attraction to you. This is the cause of many couples relationship problems. Each of them just going through life together no longer attracted to each other the way the once were in the beginning. So how do you attract someone? Or how do you regain that attraction that you once had for each other? The answer is simple…
You must BE SOMETHING and continue to BE SOMETHING MORE! What I mean by this is that you must never settle for the person you are physically, mentally or emotionally. You see people are always subconsciously looking for growth from the people around them and in their own lives. If neglect to grow as a person you partner may grow very bored of you because there is nothing exciting or new about your or your personality. There is an old saying that my grandmother told me that I’ve found to be very true. “You either grow together, or you grow apart.” I want you to think for a moment on that sentence before you keep reading. It may be the most profound statement I’ve ever heard.
You both have to continually develop yourselves in every aspect of your lives. Go learn a musical instrument! Take up yoga or some other sport! Go rock climbing together! Do things together! Go BE MORE!!!
The more you become the more you will be loved by not only your partner but by all of the people in your life. The path of continuous development of all of your skills and talents is what will being you and your partner closer together and keep you bound for life. So where do you begin your growth together?
From my personal journey with my boyfriend, and the emails I’ve received from the “Cute Names To Call Your Girlfriend” blog, I’ve found that the best place to start is in the bedroom. With both of you developing your skills as lovers you will bring each other more pleasure than you can imagine and continue to strengthen your bond for years to come.
P.S. Don’t forget to come back to the cute names to call your girlfriend blog soon.